Am I ever gonna get a job or am I just a loser and should not be here?

You are not a looser, this economy is aweful right now and it is not your fault. Even though these jobs are asking for 5-7 yrs experience you should still apply. Many people are in the situation you are in. My family is struggling right now too. But we take it day by day. We have each other and that is the most important thing. Life will get easier, you just have to have the right attitude, suicide never helps anything. Without these hard in our life we would never appreciate when the good ones come along. Life always has it's highs and lows. But all in all, it's what you make of it and your attitude in life that matters most. Start envisioning yourself in a job you love with a woman you love and keep doing that until it happens. If you think negatively then the things you truly want will not manifest. Good luck to you in your job search and personal life. I'm sure things will look up for you shortly...