I need urgent help how to became resident in UAE?

My fiancee is in Dubai working for cabin crew, we wanted to marry in Dubai and i wanted to stay there with him on his resident visa. But before few days ago i read article in gulf news that we were be unable to marry if we both don't have resident visa and i also read that if i marry him i cant have resident visa. So I'm desperate and sad if i couldn't be with him. I want to find job there i would do anything just to have resident visa and be with my fiancee. i finished high school for waitress and I'm working in telecommunication's for past 3y. if anyone could help i would be thankful.